So I'm finally 23. After having a slight break down yesterday, I've realized that it isn't so bad. I don't feel any differently. It's days like these that I wish my facebook wasn't connected to my phone because my phone is going off every 5 minutes with notifications. Oh well, it's nice to know every once in awhile that people care. I'm not doing anything spectacular this year. I think I am just going to see Breaking Dawn with my mom. Semi pathetic but I guess I owe her a movie date since she did go through 17 hours of labor with me. So enough with the boring stuff. I have a ridiculous weekend story. Since I don't want to over expose anyone else's life or embarrass them, I will use code names.
I went to the biggest rivalry game at my college this weekend. Since it's only about an hour away from home I figured I would just jump in my car and find the nearest tailgate with people that I know. After the first tailgate with one of my best friends, I went to another fraternity tailgate. Even though the rest of the University was on break and there were not a lot of people there I still had a fantastic time. After I have a few drinks, I get extremely confident and sassy. I noticed a particular guy who caught my eye right away. I asked my friends about him and they told me they would put in a word. Now I already had a few drinks and in that situation I don't need someone else to spit game for me. I have game!!
I approached him and asked him his name, we'll call him JT since he was definitely bringin sexy back. I then told him that I thought he was sexy. Everyone around proceeded to laugh and claim that it was an awkward moment. I let everyone know that it is only awkward if both parties involved feel that way. JT and I agreed that it was not awkward. He is actually a really nice guy.
Meanwhile on the other side of town, this guy who I will name Throwback, because our conversations came out of nowhere. We did attend high school together and went to the same college but we never really hung out. He just randomly hit me up one day. He is also really nice and wanted to meet up.
I work on my own clock so wherever the evening takes me that's where I am going. After being in the game for awhile with JT and two of my closest friends, Throwback starts the texting and calling. I told him where we were and when we all finally met up, the night took a turn for the ridiculous. My other friends decided to go back to the tailgate but I wasn't ready to leave yet. It was my last football game as an undergrad and we had only been there through the first quarter. I figured that I would just stay with Throwback if they wanted to go. JT also wanted to stay. After I insisted on flirting with him all night I should've expected that. I'm really glad that he stayed.
So as we went down into the stands again JT leads the way with my right hand in his and Throwback grabs my left hand. In my mind, I'm like oh hell here we go...this should be interesting. We had to stand on the stairs because the stands were extremely packed. It was still fun but I did feel as though I were the rope in a game of tug of war. It was extremely uncomfortable but I didn't let it show. We finally got some seats in the stands and Throwback needed to hit the bathroom. JT and I were starting to get tired around the 3rd quarter and I realized that the only time the team was playing well was when I left the stands. He wanted to go back and tailgate and I just needed a warm couch, a TV and some water. He walked me as far as he could until he was completely out of the way from his destined location. It was sweet. I'm so happy he decided to stay, I think we are going to have an awesome friendship.
As I got back to my friends house...the calls and text messages started. I don't think Throwback was too happy that I left and was with someone else. Hey I'm a single girl, I'm allowed to do what I want and besides JT was my new friend!
SIDE NOTE:
I am absolutely head over heals for my friends brother. I will call him Batman because he's a brilliant, mysterious super hero. He walked into the house and I sat there, pretty intoxicated so you can imagine my embarrassment. I think he is just the greatest person ever. Anyway, moving on.
Throwback called me about 15 times and I didn't want to meet up...I had capped my night. You'd think after the first 5 calls maybe he would've got the hint that I was done for the night. Nope, I received phone calls and texts until 4 am. Then more around 9 am. Did he ever sleep?! I like someone who is willing to put themselves out there and be persistent because that's what I need but I feel like this is a little overboard. I really wanted to say....Seriously man, what are your expectations here?! I'm not going to sleep with you! This is a conclusion I typically jump to. I didn't say that...I thought maybe the alcohol just had not left his system yet so I'll give him the benefit of the doubt.
It was definitely a fun night with an interesting story. In the end I had made a great friend with JT and learned that there is definitely a difference between persistent and stalker.
-Over Analyze That
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